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Category Archives: Family, Memory & Personal Essays
Aunt Willie
Aunt Willie My Aunt Willie is the cool aunt, the cultured aunt. When my mother passed away when I was seventeen, Aunt Willie became the closest thing to a mother I had. She never forgot my birthday, to this very … Continue reading
Posted in Family, Memory & Personal Essays
Tagged being a teenager, Family, fathers, raising black boys, Relationships
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Phenomenal Women Are Everywhere!
As we wind down this Women’s History Month, I would be remiss if I didn’t mention the phenomenal women, Juliette, Giovanni, Belinda, and Irma, on ReServe’s leadership team who have helped me manage one of the organization’s remits with a … Continue reading
Portrait of an Artist as a Woman
Artists have an antenna, a radar of sorts, where we can detect another artist in our midst. It’s a look in and from their eyes, as if they aren’t there, while at the same time being everywhere. I know, because … Continue reading
Posted in Family, Memory & Personal Essays
Tagged Jessica Chambliss, Poetry, Sonny's Blues, The Fedcap Group
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The Dead Can’t Bury the Dead!
In Shakespeare love often happens in the context of a tragedy: Hamlet and Ophelia in Hamlet; Romeo and Juliet in the play of the same name; Othello the Moor and Desdemona in Othello; Aaron the Moor and Tamora, Queen of … Continue reading
“We Are Family!”
If you have been following my posts, or you know my family, then you know that I have three sisters. Jeanette Waters, the Matriarch, of course, you know, from my tribute to her. Today, though, I want to uplift my … Continue reading
Posted in Family, Memory & Personal Essays, Genealogy
Tagged Family, raising black boys
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My Pandora
Hope remains! (Disclaimer: Ladies, women, womenfolk, and girls, I know that a man wrote the myth about Pandora, blaming women, as the writer of the Hebrew Bible also blamed a woman, Eve, for all the evils let loose in the … Continue reading
Son of a Native Southern Son
On this day in American history, in 1982, my father passed away, at the age of 56, a week and a day after he reached that age. I always think of my father as a Native Southern Son. When I … Continue reading
Me and Malcolm X’s Murderer
On this day in American history, Malcolm X was murdered. I was four years of age. Fourteen years later, I would meet Malcolm X’s killer. The first thought that crossed my mind: He, Thomas Hagan, is unremarkable. And then: What … Continue reading
Posted in Family, Memory & Personal Essays, Religion
Tagged Alex Haley, Black Shadows and Through the White Looking Glass, Decisive Decade, Five Percent Nation, Growing Up, Malcolm X, Martin Luther King Jr., murder, Nation of Islam, raising black boys, Samuel Yette, The Autobiography of Malcolm X, Thomas Hagan
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