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Category Archives: Family, Memory & Personal Essays
What I learned from my mother about tolerance…and appreciation
Growing up in Marcy Housing in Brooklyn, one of my neighbors was gay. Everyone in the building knew this. Everyone accepted this, because this is who he was. I won’t say that everyone in the projects accepted this, but most … Continue reading
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Tagged appreciation, Gay, homosexuality, pedophiles, tolerance
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Superman and a Little Girl’s Imagination
I am walking down a busy Brooklyn Street when a little girl sees me and says, “Superman to the rescue!” I strike a pose and walk, not fly away. I am wearing a Superman tee shirt, and I feel Super. … Continue reading
Posted in Family, Memory & Personal Essays
Tagged Relationships, Superheroes, Superman
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Fathers’ Day
Fathers’ Day is tomorrow. Nowhere near as many cards, gifts and flowers will go to fathers as Mothers’ Day . In fact, Fathers’ Day, after Mothers’ Day, is anticlimactic. Nonetheless, fathers are important in any equation when we talk about … Continue reading
Spring Cleaning and Other Discoveries
During the Spring Cleaning that I mentioned in another blog, I did not mention that I discovered something else: two manuscripts I wrote in my 20s, when I was aspiring to be a novelist. The first, βStreets of Rage,β is … Continue reading
Memorial Day (2013) — Remembering My Daddy
It’s Memorial Day, when we remember the men and women who have and are serving in our armed services. Today, I remember my father. He served his country during World War II. He enlisted in the Army on October 31, … Continue reading
“I’ll Always Love My Mama (Part 1)
Today, Mother’s Day, if one turns on the radio one is bound to hear The Intruders’ “I’ll Always Love My Mama,” inspired by one of The Intruders’ (Kenny Gamble) Mama, Ruby. Although the song, released in 1973, didn’t make it … Continue reading
Remembering Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr
My earliest political memory is of Dr. King’s assassination. I was 7 years old. I didn’t understand the enormity or impact of his death. All I knew, as a child, using the adults’ sentiments as a barometer, was that the … Continue reading
There is always a story…
Just the other day I was walking by the Dunkin Donuts on the corner of Broadway and Halsey in Brooklyn when a man, probably my age plus twenty years of hard living on the streets, limped up to me and … Continue reading
Remembering 9-11
Everyone in New York City has a 9-11 story. Mine begins nearly two months before that fateful day. I was in the World Trade Center with my ex-wife, who is originally from Jamaica. (I am a born and bred New … Continue reading
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On the Dock
We are moored to the dock Supine Stargazing Lost in the Milky Way I feel so far away from home Where we canβt see the stars We oooh and aaah at shooting stars This is better than the Macyβs Fourth … Continue reading